cariad let me first say that i truly hope i wasnt the one you feel insulted you. that was never ever even close to my intention. i made a point to apologize to you because i knew that posting this thread was going to make your life a little more diffcult, but again i say..... it all needed to be said.

i also don't really have a problem with the forums. not really. nothing as substantial as the chat room. but i posted this here in the forums because i can't exactly express my opinion in the chat room, about the chat room, without being banned.

i wanted to mainly point out to the website owners that even though they may not own and run the chat room, the chat room is none the less an extension of this website. and the chat room is making the website look bad.

this thread is a way for people to express their complaints in a mature and civil way and KNOW that they are being heard since it is a public forum.

i think the owner's of this website should seriously consider the reason behind this thread and courses of action that can be taken. because as i said, i realize that the chat room is seperately owned but right now it is an extension of sorts of this website. an extension that sits in ill will and "conspiriacy".

lol and no there isn't any real conspiriacy. as i said.... i know it seemed for the most part i basically evaded saying what i meant outright but that was because i couldn't say anything without naming names. obviously though, people realize what i am talking about.

i'm glad to see that this thread hasn't gone sour and hopefully it wont. because it's not my intention.

cariad, again i am sincerely sorry that i had to purposefully make your beautiful life more difficult. as i have always said, you are a goddess to me on this forum and i respect you.