0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would be willing to do it to please the Dominant if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a "soft limit").

1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it were asked of you by your Dominant.

2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.

3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.

4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.

5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.




Abrasion: no - 0
Age play: Maybe 1
Anal sex: Yes 4
Anal plugs (small): yes 4
Anal plugs (large): Yes 3
Anal plug (public, under clothes): yes 4
Animal roles: No 0
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): Never tried. 2
Asphyxiation: No no no HARD no!
Auctioned for charity: No no no Hard No
Bathroom use control: In the middle. 2/3
Bestiality: No no no Hard no!
Beating (soft): yes 4
Beating (hard): Yes 2
Blindfolds: yes 5
Being serviced (sexual): yes 5
Being bitten: yes 2
Breast/chest bondage: Yes 5
Breath control: No No NO hard no!
Branding: No 0
Boot worship: No 1/2
Bondage (light): yes 4
Bondage (heavy): Yes 4
Bondage (multi-day): No 1
Bondage (public, under clothing): Yes 4
Bondage and Sex: yes 5
Breast whipping: Yes 2/3
Brown showers (scat): No No No hard no
Cages (locked inside of): no 1/2
Caning: Yes 2/3
Catheterization: No.. but slightly intrigued.
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): No .... but curious.
Chastity belts: Yes 2/3
Chauffeuring: I don't understand this question.
Choking: NO NO NO hard no
Clothespins breast/nipples: Yes 5
Clothespins labia lips/clit: Yes 4
Clothespins body: Yes3
Cock worship: Yes 3
Collars (worn in private): Yes 4/5
Collars (worn in public): Yes 3/4
Competitions (with other Subs): no
Corsets (wearing): yes 5
Cuffs: yes 5
Cuffs (metal): yes 5
Cutting: No no no Hard no!
Dilation: No... 0 ? I may try it once if Dom really wanted it.
Double penetration: Yes 4 .. but with one man and toys.. ***
Electricity: Yes, 3/4 Curious..
Enemas: Yes 1/2
Enforced chastity: yes 1/2
Examinations (physical): Yes 1/2
Exercise (forced/required): Yes 3/4
Exhibitionism (friends): no Hard.
Exhibitionism (strangers): no Hard.
Eye contact restrictions: yes 2/3
Face slapping: No
Fantasy abandonment: no 0/1
Fantasy rape: no 0/1
Fantasy forced deep throat: Yes 3/4
Fantasy forced cunt licking: No hard limit.
Fantasy forced rape anal: No 0/1
Fantasy gang-rape: No hard limit
Fisting (anal): no 1/2 .. curious
Fisting (vaginal): yes 2/3 ... curious
Flogging: Yes..... 3/4
Following hand signals: I don't know what this is exactly
Following orders: yes 5
Foot worship: no 1/2
Forced dressing: yes 3/4
Forced homosexuality: No no HARD limit.
Forced masturbation: yes 4
Forced nudity (private): yes 5
Forced nudity (around others): no Hard limit
Forced servitude: yes 3/4
Full head hoods: no 0
Gags (cloth): No 0
Gags (penis shaped): no 2
Gags (rubber): no 2
Gags (tape): no 3
Gates of Hell: N/A
Genital sex: yes 5
Given away to another Dom (temp): no no
Given away to another Domme (temp): no
Given away to another Dom (perm): no no
Given away to another Domme (perm): no
Golden showers: Curious 2
Greetings rituals: Yes 2/3
Hairbrush spankings: Yes 4
Hair pulling: Yes 4
Hand jobs (giving): YES 5
Hand jobs (receiving): n/a
Harems (serving w/other subs): no HARD limit
Harnessing (leather): Yes 3
Harnessing (rope): Yes 3
Having food chosen for you: No 0/1
Having clothing chosen for you: no 1/2
Head (giving cunnilingus): No hard limit
Head (giving fellatio): yes 5
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): Yes.. 3.. .had it once.. it hurt
Head (receiving fellatio male only): n/a
High heel worship: no
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): I don't know what this is.
Hot oils (on genitals): Yes 1/2
Hot waxing: Yes 1/2
Housework (doing): Yes 4
Human puppy dog: No
Humiliation (private): no 1
Humiliation (public): no
Hypnotism: no hard limit
Ice cubes: Yes 3
Infantilism: no 0
Initiation rites: Do not know about this
Injections: No....
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: Yes 4
Interrogations: yes 2/3
Kidnapping: Yes 2
Kneeling: yes 4
Leather clothing: Yes 4
restraints chains: Yes 4
restraints leather: Yes 4
restraints rope: Yes 4
Lectures for misbehavior: Yes 3
Licking (non-sexual): yes 1/2
Manacles & Irons: Yes 3
Manicures (giving): Yes 3
Massage (giving): yes 3
Massage (receiving): yes 5
Medical scenes: Yes 4
Modeling for erotic photos: Yes 4
Modeling for erotic videos: Yes 4
Mouth bits: no 3
Mummification: no 0
Nipple clamps: YES 5
Nipple cloths pins: YES 5
Nipple weights: yes 5
Oral/anal play (rimming): No 1
Over-the-knee spanking: Yes 4
Orgasm denial: yes 5
Orgasm control: yes 5
Outdoor scenes: no 1/2
Outdoor sex: no 2
Phone sex (serving Domme): no
Phone sex (serving Domme's friends): no
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): Yes 3/4
Piercing (permanent): nYes 3/4
Prison scenes: Yes 3/4
Pony slave: no
Public exposure: no hard limit
Public tasks: Yes 3
Pussy/cock whipping: Yes 2
Pussy worship: No
Riding crops: yes 4
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): uhmm... sounds interesting.
Rituals: do not know what these are.
Religious scenes: no no
Restrictive rules on behavior: yes 5
Rubber/latex clothing: Yes 3/4
Rope body harness: Yes 4
Saran wrapping: Yes 2
Scratching – getting: yes 2
Scratching – giving: Yes 4
Sensory deprivation: Yes 2
Serving: yes 5
Serving as art: Yes 3
Serving as ashtray: no Hard limit
Serving as furniture: Yes 2
Serving as a maid: Yes 4
Serving as toilet: no.
Serving as waitress/waiter: Yes 2
Serving orally (sexual): yes 5
Serving other Doms (supervised): no
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): no
Sexual deprivation (short term): yes 4
Sexual deprivation (long term): no 3
Shaving (body hair): Yes 5
Shaving (head hair): no no hard limit
Shaving (pubic hair): Yes 5
Sleep deprivation: No. 0
Sleep-sacks: no
Slutty clothing (private): yes 5
Slutty clothing (public): yes 3
Spanking in private: yes 5
Spanking in public: no
Spanking in bdsm parties: Yes 2/3
Spanking pleasure: yes 2
Spandex clothing: No...
Speech restrictions (when, what): Yes 2/3
Speculums (Anal): No... 2
Speculums (vaginal): No 2
Spreader bars: Yes 4
Standing in corner: Yes 3
Stocks (adjustable): yes 2/3
Stocks (fixed): Yes 2/3
Straight jackets: no
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): yes 2
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): yes4
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): yes 3
Strapping (full body beating): no 0
Suspension (upright); no
Suspension (inverted): no
Suspension (horizontal): no
Supplying new partners for Dom: no
Swallowing semen: Yes 3
Swallowing urine: no 1
Swapping (with one other couple): no hard limit
Swinging (multiple couples): no hard limit
Tattooing: Yes 2
Teasing: Yes 3
Tickling: No 0
Triple penetration: Yes 3
Triple penetration by 3 males: No.hard limit
Uniforms: yes 4
Including others: no hard limit
Vaginal dildo: Yes 4
Verbal humiliation: no 0/1
Vibrator on genitals: YES 5
Voyeurism (watching others): no 2
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): No hard limit
Video (watching others): yes 4
Video (recordings of you): no 0/1
Water torture: no soft limit.. no submersion HARD limit
Wearing symbolic jewelry: yes 3
Whipping: yes 4
Wooden paddles: Yes 4
Wrestling: Yes 1


I hope I answered these right.. I pretty much meant .. I would or wouldn't do by Yes or No.. and then used the 0-5 on how hard it was...

I am willing to try almost anything one time.. except my hard limits.... those are pretty set....

-hopes she makes sense!-

Anya