This is a good read TG...

Sex (in/out/repeat) has always been a bit of a hang up for me. I have very little desire for it and i've always thought that i was sexually flawed in this way. I mean what woman would want a relationship with me if i didn't desire sex.

Looking at what Valkyrie has going on with her husband though is extremely exciting to me and i'd definitely desire that. I guess it has a lot to do with the dynamic, because i find sex itself very boring. Can you imagine being made to have sex, and at the end of it all not even knowing if you were allowed to orgasm or not? (Good Lord!) *ahem*

I guess the missionary position, for a man, does sort of put him in control, and for a hardwired malesub, control is something we not often desire. Maybe that's where my hang up is. Seems to be all about the dynamic.

That said, and i hope this thread isn't too old, but I'd love to ask, if sex took on that kind of dynamic every time, such as in Valkyrie's case, would this be sexually satisfying enough for you? I mean would you miss the man taking charge and being in control, to be sexually happy?

(Nice to see these old threads living TG, thanx for bringing them to the top)

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