Let's really get to know each other!

[TaintedJohn]

Anyone want to try to contribute more to it?

Why yes I would.

My wife and I, suddenly moved from a long term mild bedroom spanking fetish into D/s over the last year. We were separated for several months, but by year's end had worked thru almost all our relationship problems. Although she spoke first we both wanted more out of life. I stopped drinking and we started to explore D/s, each other, and those secret things that are deep inside ourselves.

I have had a few long term relationships which always had an underpinning that I was unwilling to change and "you" could leave if "you" wish. This relationship was a 13 year marriage operating under the same rules. As it was coming apart, I had a phone conversation with a lifelong friend who was several years past a real ugly divorce. In it she told me that one of her few life regrets was not trying harder when things got tough to work it out. She gave up. It may not have mattered, but her not at least trying still nagged at her.

Several long hikes later I was willing to do anything to make it work. If it didn't work out then a bruised ego would be a small cost knowing that I really had tried to save the only marriage I was likely to have in my life.

The threat of being alone had never bothered me before, although the prospect of dating pushing 50 was not that appealing. These thoughts were seen thru my then vanilla-eyes. LOL The idea of dating with my now totally BDSM wired brain wakes me in the middle of the night in a cold sweat and shaking. The vanilla days are over for good.

We were moving to Vegas and were trying D/s with me topping. One night she talked me into her trying a new flogger on me.

WOW,it blew me away. Our D/s was struggling and we were both going to explore D/s outside of our marriage, within limits.

She is a total sub, but suggested that we try with her the domme. I was cool with this, but never thought it would go past a few scenes. I was really into "playing" the sub. The first few hotel scenes were fun.

After this scene I'm about to relate I realized that trying something new in BDSM and not liking it is not always the most disturbing. It is trying something and liking it.

We were staying at the close friends house near the end of the summer while shopping for an apartment. I was given the task of finding two belts during the day to administer a punishment that night for some forgotten infraction. To me this was not much more than poorly disguised edgy talk since there would be others in the house that evening. Later when the evening was winding down and the others were leaving the pool area to retire to bed she told me to remove my shirt and come with her.

There was an alley between the houses that was gated on one end and mostly blocked by a storage shed on the other. "Lower your pants and shorts" followed by a slap when I hesitated slightly. The humiliation of being where we would certainly be heard if not seen, suddenly made the scene "too" real. I was naked from the ankles up and leaning into the stucco on my knuckles. I could hear the clicking of her heels as she was walking around me taunting, pinching and whispering in my ear as she pulled my hair as she made one point or another. It was a warm windless night and when the spanking started the sound of it reverberated off the cement walls.

Foolish me actually snuck a peek around to take in the line of sight of the surrounding houses while she was going thru a pile of toys that were surprisingly right behind me. I remember thinking "where did they come from?" when my transgression was noticed. She was right in my face "Do you trust me?" as she twisted a nipple. "Yes, Goddess" SLAP, "then let me worry about anyone seeing us, because you have enough to worry about already." In that instant, I truly believed her.

The scene lasted over an hour. I remember short parts of it vividly. The sound of water falling into the pool around the corner, the clicking of her heels, moving my hands on the wall, and the still air on my sweating body. The spanking moved to a paddling, on to a flogging, followed by a paint stick on my thighs(the evil bitch) and nipples. I remember her roughly shoving her finger up my ass, a short amount of oral sex which was just to get Mr Happy to be a bigger target for cbt, and the constant verbal barrage as she walk around seemingly speaking from every point in the now very close alley. I was long past caring about anyone seeing us, my arms were shaking and my breathing labored. Most of it was a blur and at the same time seemed to go on forever. If the police suddenly showed up at the curb, it seem like this would not be a bad thing to me at the time.

Then the belts were brought out for play. I was deep in subspace, long past caring, but the sound of them striking me seemed very loud compared to how little I was feeling them was disturbing. When it was over she told me to turn around. Now, I'm 6'1" and much taller than her, but until turning around it felt as if she was towering over me. I was shaking, physically and mentally.

She told me to masturbate. In a feeble voice I whispered, "yellow". She held me, comforted me and told me how good of it was for me to use my safeword.

We moved inside and she had me worship her pussy. After she came, she found her mask, kissed me, and rolled over to go to sleep. The last thing she said was "You may masturbate now, but if you disturb me getting to sleep there will be consequences" As I laid there quitely playing with myself I thought how it was now a whole new ballgame for me. I fell to sleep the happiest in years.

I enjoy being a submissive, but I have problems how the vanilla world sees "me", if they knew. Also, how I see myself, and how I was raised. The feelings that this scene brought forth, even if I return at some point to domming, make it impossible to return the vanilla life as I knew it. I went from "in" control of my life to being led into the Fetish Ball on a leash connected to my collar, but contented. sigh.

It seems strange that just several months ago we were so far apart when now we are so close. I want to thank this forum and its members for their openness and knowledge at a time when I really needed it to work out my life.

tj

[Barton]

Glad to see that someone else added a real life adventure to this post. Maybe Kats will post another.

Kats??

[Ruby]

Last Night Denial leads to Today's Nooner

Well, darn, I can't be expected to write all these hot little stories and not get in a piece of my own action. The lovely Kat goes and posts herself being penetrated by Barton. That had me yelling for my hubby/dom, Master T.

I showed him the pictures, begged him for a set of our own and the man heads to bed and goes to sleep; leaving me to write more for BabySub. Grrr! Sexual tension was now very high - for me at least. If that wasn't enough, Lord Chuck sends me a PM that gets me all hot and bothered, more than I already am.

Today before lunch, T rewarded me for my patience.

He gave me the honor of wetting him down and hardening him up with a warm tongue bath and lots of sucking. He's on his back, legs spread and I'm bent down with his erection in my mouth, my knees near his head. While I'm working on him, he started fingering my clit with one hand and the other hand is pinching and pulling on my nipples.

It felt so good and I was racing to an climax. I was so close and then the spanking started. Not too hard, not too soft, but just right. Open handed spanks on my bottom, my clit and across my pussy. By now, I'm ready to explode and he orders, "You can take a picture," as he leaves me on the edge of a climax.

I can't get to the digital camera fast enough. When I do, he's kind enough to do a few poses before I'm draped over him again. This time, he adds a cold glass dildo inside my pussy and turns a small vibrator on over my clit. My mouth is so full of him that all I can do is wiggle and moan to my heart's content. The first of many forced orgasms begins. I say forced, because he locks his arm around my waist, pinning me down and keeping me from moving. I just have to ride out one after another.

Its feast or famine and sometimes the feast can move from too much pleasure to too much pain in a short amount of time. My clit gets so sensitive that all he has to do is rub it just the right way and I'm climaxing again. Sometimes it feels like one big climax, and other times they come in waves. Today was a wave day and I rode them out with lots of joy.

Part of the game is that I can climax repeatedly, but I'm not allowed to bring him off. It's not as easy as it sounds, but I accept the challenge.

Switching positions, he let me take a few pictures of him sucking my breasts and playing with them. By now, I'm so excited I can't think straight. It's a good thing he's giving the orders.

Out comes a blindfold and I'm told to lay on my back with my head over the edge of the bed. He's standing in front of my upside down head and into my mouth goes his hard cock again. I reach behind him and hold his legs, playing with his firm tight ass and he has another surprise for me. This time, he's got my favorite little whip. It's a hand held flogger with lots of strands. The whole thing isn't any longer than his forearm, but it stings nicely.

Down it comes on my breasts and I'm oomphing around his cock, sucking and teasing him while he's slashing at me. With another command, my legs are open and then he starts slashing at my inner thighs, my clit and my pussy. The whip stings, but it feels good and before long, I'm ready to scream for mercy. Not that he stop, no, not that kind of mercy. I want to beg him to do something to get me off!

(Did I mention before that denial makes me cranky? It's a good thing he enjoys making me come repeatedly, cause I don't think I could handle any of the denial subby tasks.)

T stops long enough to take of few pictures of his cock in my mouth then brings out the toys again. I'm so sensitive that all I want are his fingers, but he likes to play with the hard, unyielding glass and plastic, so that's what I get. After a short time, I'm squealing around his cock, because he's sent me over the edge again and he tells me to hold my breasts.

He stands up, puts his cock between them and I hear the camera clicking. At least, I think I do, cause I'm so far go into subspace that it takes me awhile to register his next command. "Hands and knees, butt facing me!"

It's a great position. I'm backing up to the edge of the bed, he's widening my legs and fingering my anus and my clit. I'm pretty sure there were lots of sounds coming out of my mouth, like "good, more, yes, and thank you." He put his hand on my back, to push my head down and I'm still mumbling incoherently.

Deciding I was a bit too noisy, he handed me the glass dildo and said, "Put this in your mouth."

I turned sideways a bit so he could see me sucking and licking it as if it was him. After he praised me, he inserted the small vibrator into my ass and his cock into my pussy. I was squirming all over the place and he just stayed still, waiting until I calmed down before he thrust into me with nice slow thrusts.

The whole time, I was supposed to keep licking and sucking the glass toy, which tasted like me. I did it, but it was so hard to concentrate on my task, when I wanted to concentrate on my pussy.

When he neared his own climax, he pulled out the vibrator and pounded into me. I was clutching the toy with one hand, grabbing the sheets with the other and he pushed us both into a beautiful climax. Finally the blindfold came off. :-) Lots of gentle cuddling occurred shortly thereafter.

Not sure if I'll be brave enough to post the pictures, but taking them was sure fun!

A big thank you goes to Kats and Barton for your great pics in the personal photography section and to Sir Chuck for teasing me last night in a good way. Another big thank you to all my friends in the forum who inspire me with your stories and the sharing of your adventures. You know who you are.

[Barton]

Taking them is always most of the fun Ruby. A great escapade, thank you for sharing it with us.

[Ruby]

Thank you, Barton. (Give Kats a big squeezie for me.)

[wannabeXopsed]

Oh Ruby, I am so excited by your Nooner, I can't even believe it. While I was reading it and you spoke about T, I had to check it twice, I was so involved in the story as if I was there, it made me look twice.

Thanks for sharing, and Master T sounds yummy.

The other
T

Ps, maybe I should change my signature to WB, so we don't get confused, or at least I don't.

[erotic_nibbles]

I love this thread...thank you for creating it Katmandu!...hopefully I can post something here sometime soon
~~nibbles~~

[slavelucy]

Ruby!! Thanks so much for recounting that tale, it's really hot and beautifully told. i envy you, i am so crap at being remotely graphic in recounting my sex/DS life, so, big respect!

And, i know what you mean about sucking anything that 'tastes of yourself'! :yuck:

sl x

[Nightstriker]

This is a great idea Kat........
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When I have one I most certanly will post it......

[Ruby]

Another post of Kats' hot pics today in the photo section, she has this hot little thread going, I might have to start a fan club!

Kats (and Barton) - thanks again for showing us how to have fun. When I first read this thread, I didn't have a username. Kats adventure go me so hot and bothered. Re-reading it does the same thing everytime. Encore beautiful woman, encore!

T - AKA WB - Reading that post again gave me the giggles. It must have been hard not to get mixed up. Master T is indeed yummy and the inspiration for many of my fictional characters. So does the T stand for tease, tittilating, tigress? My man's T stands for Tiger. You don't have to change your name for me. I'll be better about calling him by his full nickname.

Sl - You envy me? No way! I love reading your posts and your partners posts about what you've been up to. I'm just not brave enough to have a thread documenting my ongong sexcapades. I'd rather write about my virtual self, but was so excited I couldn't resist.

TaintedJohn - When you said, "I'm about to relate I realized that trying something new in BDSM and not liking it is not always the most disturbing. It is trying something and liking it." - That really struck me. Talk about true. Our rational minds says - ewe gross - and some part of us say, we'll maybe not, I'd do that again. So what have you been up to?

Who's next? Horny and inquiring minds want to know what the rest of you have been up to in real-life.

[Sir Lanceloth]

wow, sure sounds like someone on this forum are enjoying themselves

[Katmandu]

Well everyone, I was going to start a new thread for this bit of news, but decided to stick it in here instead:

Master Barton and I are traveling across the state today to northern FLorida, to look at some land.
We put a hefty down payment on a 10-acre lot of heavy woodland in an agricultural zone.
Wish us luck! If we can pull this purchase off.......

What WONDERFUL stories we might be able to post in here after we aquire our own private woods!!!!!!!

[GaryWilcox]

What WONDERFUL stories we might be able to post in here after we aquire our own private woods!!!!!!!

WARNING!

Look for giant truck tire tracks!

My father owned some land in... oh, damn, I forget the name of the city, but I think it was west of Green Cove Springs... and we had to booby trap it to keep trucks from crashing through our gate and crushing trees!

* picturing Kat tied to a tree, naked, blindfolded, as Barton attends to her, when all of a sudden, a monster truck comes rolling out of the woods... *

[smartass kitten]

Master Barton and I are traveling across the state today to northern FLorida, to look at some land.
We put a hefty down payment on a 10-acre lot of heavy woodland in an agricultural zone.
Wish us luck! If we can pull this purchase off.......

~

I'm a little confused. you're looking, but already put on a downpayment, yet still hope to buy it?

[subterfuge]

Why yes I would.
The threat of being alone had never bothered me before, although the prospect of dating pushing 50 was not that appealing. These thoughts were seen thru my then vanilla-eyes. LOL The idea of dating with my now totally BDSM wired brain wakes me in the middle of the night in a cold sweat and shaking. The vanilla days are over for good.
tj

I'm not so experienced with this forum, and I say that because I have no idea whether it makes sense to respond to something written last year. But I want to respond to this for two reasons:

1) John eloquently put into words something that I've been struggling with for some time. The last woman in my life was very vanilla, and highly suspicious of any sexual activity that did originate from a spiritual place. We were almost married. She is one of the most compassionate and beautiful people I've ever known and in still my best friend.
The woman prior to her was a pain slut, and just a slut anyway, in the best possible sense. She gave me a taste of something I couldn't lose if I wanted to, and I don't want to. I had no idea that kind and level of pleasure existed. So, I have a similar dilemma, as far as searching for a new mate. At times, it seems hopeless, although I know it is not.

2) Just wanted to add some high praise to this forum for providing this kind of outlet and support for unconventional viewpoints/lifestyles. It really is amazing that people have some place safe to go to bare their souls.

sunburststrat

[Ruby]

For those of you who haven't played this game, it can be fun and exhausting.

It's called, "bring him to the edge, while making her cum till she can't move".

Here's a version that happened to me today. No pain involved, only pleasure and many forced orgasms. I say forced cause I'm pinned down, my mouth is full, my brain is screaming for mercy and my body is begging for more. Yup, overload and deep into subspace I went. How I love my T!


It's tough to decide where to begin...at the nuzzling and just cuddling, where we began kissing, or where he had me lean over him so he could suckle my breasts while fingering my wet pussy and clit. He lays on his back and plays me like an instrument.

He likes me in lots of "hands and knees" positions; over him, on the side of him, in front of him. This had me leaning over him so his mouth was on my breast, his hand tweaking and playing with the other one, and his free hand toying between my legs.

One hand eventually went into my ponytail to direct me down to his erection while his hands got very busy between my legs with a new vibrator.

I hold onto a thigh and he turns to the side, sometimes locking my head between his legs if I get to enthusiastic and he's not ready to cum. This leaves one of my hands free to roam all over his body. I like to run my fingers from his butt to his shoulder and then back again, sometimes, lingering with fingernails on his nice firm buttcheeks. Sometimes, reaching behind me to play with his chest or put a finger in his mouth.

In this position, his head is resting on my thigh, my head is in his lap and my body across his torso. Everywhere we touch skin to skin wants more and the places that aren't touching were feeling the air from the ceiling fan tickling the sweat on my body.

After a nice long session of "bring him to the edge, but don't make him cum" and "make her climax until she's a puddle", the vibrator found it's way from my pussy to my anus.

Slow teasing while playing with my clit sent me to the stars and time seemed to stand still. He lowered it inside me, inch by inch, using my pussy juices as a lubricant. My hips were bucking and I was riding that wave of pleasure over and over again. His cock was in my mouth and I was in heaven as it twitched or thrust inside of me.

When I thought I couldn't take it anymore, when I was almost begging for mercy cause he's made me cum so many times, he had me hold the vibrator in my ass. Then he climbed out from underneath me, to position me with my head down, bottom up, and pussy available, near the edge of the bed.

He stood at the side of the bed and thrust into me so hard I thought I was going to explode. Using the vibrator, pushing and pulling it in rhythm with his cock, he told me to touch my clit so he could feel my fingers against him.

One climax followed another and I was pushing against him while he was pushing into me. When he wanted to thrust deeper, he removed the vibrator and grasped my hands behind my back, holding them like reigns so he could push into me and pull on my hands, bringing me back into him, harder and harder, deeper and deeper.

Everything in me focused on my hands in his, his cock in my pussy and my buttcheeks feeling his skin as he pressed against and into me.

I'm not sure if I was talking outloud, but my mind was screaming, yes, yes, yes, yes...

Everything became frenzied as he rode me harder and harder, faster and faster to one big climax. He filled me over and over, until finally, neither of us could or wanted to move. I was panting, struggling for air and totally satisfied.

So...what have you been up to lately?

[Jadetiger]

Damn Ruby that was so unfair of you. You have just turned my fantasy of chasing Saracen around a room with a big stick to whimpering for mercy and begging him to let me cum. LOL

Saracen's Jade

[Ruby]

Damn Ruby that was so unfair of you. You have just turned my fantasy of chasing Saracen around a room with a big stick to whimpering for mercy and begging him to let me cum. LOL

Saracen's Jade

You know I want to see either one of those things happen. :-[

I'm not sure I can take much more of you on CD (cum depravation). Perhaps we should all start begging Saracen.

[Jadetiger]

Yes please Jade whimpers. LOL This is where my internal struggle at be a switch always gets me. Switching between dominant and submissive fanatsies sure takes it toll on a girl. It is also one of the greatest pleasures of being a switch as well. Jade runs back to fantasy domming Saracen for putting her on CD. :-[ Of course I know it will never happen in real life but since it is my fantasy my fantasy Saracen will just have to grin and bare it.

Saracen's Jade