He he. I think you jumped into this a bit prematurely. This comment doesn't really connect to anything does it? I'm not into polyamory so I really don't have to care.
But, my lack of jelousy can be a problem since many women use level of jelously as a measure of degree of my love for her. With my ex I had to pretend to be jelous when she needed it. The sacrifices we do for love.