
Originally Posted by
cariad
Whilst on the matter of semantics, I have to pick up your use of the word 'should' in 'that person should be counselled'. That makes it sound like a punishment for the victim. Yes, they should be offered it, but effective counselling is challenging and often painful for the counsellee, and should only be undertaken voluntarily and when the person is ready. Will go with 'they should be offered counselling', which I suspect is what you meant anyway.
And as for punishment - well that is whole new can of worms.
Suspecting we are having a heated agreement,
cariad