Hard limit questionaire for both Doms and subs to help them find long term partners

[Sir_Russell]

cazee

You have a lot of potential, I would say that you dabbled in the life but have not found your Dom/Master that can lead you and teach you.

I hope you find someone that will be willing to take the time and show the restraint that you will need to find out more about yourself in the life.

[TeddyBearGaySlave]

Abrasion: don't know what that means and translator makes no sense SORRY
Age play: See Abrasion confused:
Anal sex: 5
Anal plugs (small): 4
Anal plugs (large): 4 Not done yet
Anal plug (public, under clothes): 5 Not done yet
Animal roles: 5
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): See Abrasion
Asphyxiation: 0 No, that is too risky for me. I love breathing
Auctioned for charity: 5 Not done, but HOOOT
Bathroom use control: 5 Done, great
Bestiality: 5, loved it
Beating (soft): 4, done, But Harder is better
Beating (hard): 5 done and loving it
Blindfolds: 5, done
Being serviced (sexual): Don't get that, sorry!
Being bitten: 5, yes
Breast/chest bondage: 5, yes
Breath control: 0, not being done to me. ever! (bad experience as a kid )
Branding: 5 if Brandings can completely heal away. Otherwise 0
Boot worship: 1, done. and baaah, is it boooring
Bondage (light): 3, done. heavy Bondage is better
Bondage (heavy): 5 :>
Bondage (multi-day): Not done yet, but would definietly like to try that one :> 4
Bondage (public, under clothing): 5, sound HOT. not done yet
Bondage and Sex: 5 nothing to say about it. i LOVE it
Breast whipping: 5 (I think I can call my man tits breasts )
Brown showers (scat): 0 NEVER NEVER NEVER EVER!
Cages (locked inside of): 5 turns me one! done is some times too
Caning: 5 hehe done of course
Catheterization: 5 but never done. sounds very hot if it isnt unhealthy
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): 1 sounds boring. never done
Chastity belts: 5 yeaaah, absolutely turn on! my record: 4 weeks
Chauffeuring: Don't get this one either. Sorry
Choking: 0 NO!
Clothespins breast/nipples: 5 YEEEES please
Clothespins labia lips/clit: N/A
Clothespins body: 2 Do not like those very much. Those are a REAL punishment for me
Cock worship: 5 I LOVE cocks
Collars (worn in private): 5 yes. done. loved it
Collars (worn in public):5 NOT done, would probably love it
Competitions (with other Subs): 5 oh that is sooo hot. Done it a few times already and it was a great great time.
Corsets (wearing): 0 No way Sir
Cuffs: 5 Also a turn on for me. Done of course
Cuffs (metal): 5 see above
Cutting: 1 - 2 Dont really think I can like this one. But as long at it isnt risky, why not? not done
Dilation: 3 Sounds hot too. Not done yet.
Double penetration: 5 Not done, but would love too!
Electricity: 4 Done a few times, and liked it very much. Cook my balls please
Enemas: 5 Really big enemas that make me cramp: Want to! Done
Enforced chastity: 5 5 5 5 Loved it very much. Done many times
Examinations (physical): 5 Yes please. Done!
Exercise (forced/required): 5 OHHH YES, that is one of my most most favorite turn ons. Driving me to the edge of what I am physically able to do. Hotness!!!
Exhibitionism (friends): 5 sounds soooooooo hot. being to afraid to do yet though.
Exhibitionism (strangers): 5 Done and it was great.
Eye contact restrictions: 1 Sounds stupid to me. But maybe I would begin to like it. I always look everyone in his eyes, I do not like it any other way.
Face slapping: 3 Done. Also one of the things that really punishes me.
Fantasy abandonment: 1 I dont know, really. Not done
Fantasy rape: 5 Yes big turn on. Not done yet
Fantasy forced deep throat: 5 Done yet, had a hard time but liked it.
Fantasy forced cunt licking: 1 No, PLEASE NOT! Not done yet.
Fantasy forced rape anal: See forced Rape
Fantasy gang-rape: 5 TURN ON!!! Not down yet
Fisting (anal): 1 I am afraid of it, but I might try it with a person who knows what he is doing. Not done.
Fisting (vaginal): NA
Flogging: 4 Hot! Done
Following hand signals: 1 Sounds strange? Not done
Following orders: 3 If I am slave, of course I follow orders.
Foot worship: 2 Do not love feet, but do not hat them either.
Forced dressing: 1 Bores the hell out of me. Done
Forced homosexuality: N / A I am gay.
Forced masturbation: 3 Done that, liked that. But was not THAT great. But infront of other people it is 5!
Forced nudity (private): 5 Yes please! Done a LOT.
Forced nudity (around others): 5 Yes please. Done that a LOT too! BIG BIG BIG Turn on.
Forced servitude: 3 Done.
Full head hoods: 5. Like those very much. Done.
Gags (cloth): 5 Gags are on of my BIGGEST fetish!
Gags (penis shaped): 5 Gags are on of my BIGGEST fetish!
Gags (rubber): 5 Gags are on of my BIGGEST fetish!
Gags (tape): 5 Gags are on of my BIGGEST fetish!
Gates of Hell: 5 Oh the Gates of Hell are a GREAAAT toy! Done!!
Genital sex: Sorry?
Given away to another Dom (temp): 5 Done it. LOVED it!
Given away to another Domme (temp): 5 Would LOVE if that would be doen to me!!! Not done yet
Given away to another Dom (perm): 0 Noo Not done, dont want to either!
Given away to another Domme (perm): 0 Noo See above
Golden showers: 4 Yes, I like those! Done a lot
Greetings rituals: 2 Yeah would do that. Not exciting though. Not done.
Hairbrush spankings: 3 Sounds hot! Not done, but it is a good idea :>
Hair pulling: 5 Pubic hair, facial hair, body hair pulling: GREAT! Done.
Hand jobs (giving): 5 Love that, especially to unknown people. Done.
Hand jobs (receiving): 5 Done. What a question.
Harems (serving w/other subs): YES, turn on for me! Not really done yet.
Harnessing (leather): Dont now what it is. Transloter doesnt say anything.
Harnessing (rope): See above.
Having food chosen for you: 3 Like that! Done.
Having clothing chosen for you: 3 Could be hot. Not done.
Head (giving cunnilingus): 3 Yeah, would hate it. And therefore love it.
Head (giving fellatio): 5 Yes please. Done a LOT!
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): NA
Head (receiving fellatio male only): 4 Love it of course
High heel worship: 1 Boring as hell to me. Makes no sense for me and I cannot understand that.
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): Dont understand what that is.
Hot oils (on genitals): 5 ! Sounds very hot! No pun intended. Not done
Hot waxing: 0 !!! Forced waking/ Forced shaving are TABOO!
Housework (doing): 2 Done
Human puppy dog: 4. liked it very much. Done
Humiliation (private): 5 YEEEES PLEASE
Humiliation (public): 5 even more YEES PLEASE ...drools...
Hypnotism: NO IDEA. Could be interesting. Not done
Ice cubes: 4 Those are great. Done
Infantilism: 2 I dont really know. Not done.
Initiation rites: Sorry?
Injections: 3 As long as they arent permantly harmfull. Not done.
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: 5 Yes please. Not done.
Interrogations: 5 Yes, done. And oooh how I loved it!
Kidnapping: 3 I dont really know. Not down?
Kneeling: 2 done
Leather clothing: 5 love love love it.
restraints chains: 5 love bondage things. done
restraints leather: see above
restraints rope: see above
Lectures for misbehavior: 5 Very important for me! Done
Licking (non-sexual): No scat or piss. Other wise yes. Cannot rate that.
Manacles & Irons: 5 done
Manicures (giving): 1 Not done
Massage (giving): 3 Could be hot. Not really done.
Massage (receiving): 5 yeaah give me massage pls! :> done
Medical scenes: 5 big turn on! Done

Modeling for erotic photos: 5 not done
Modeling for erotic videos:5 not done
Mouth bits: Dont know what you mean
Mummification: Dont know what you mean
Nipple clamps: 5 done a lot!
Nipple cloths pins: 5 done a lot! ooooh the pain
Nipple weights: 4 done
Oral/anal play (rimming): 3 not a BIG turn on for me but can be fun! done
Over-the-knee spanking: 5 Spank me! PLease Done
Orgasm denial: 5 Oh YES YES YES that really drives me crazy. Done a LOT
Orgasm control: 5 see above
Outdoor scenes: 5 Love nature! And when people are looking: I love embarrasment!!! DONE
Outdoor sex: 5 Love nature! not done yet .(
hone sex (serving Dom): 2 Bores me. Done
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): 2 Bores me. Done
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): 4 Yeah, we could DEFINITELY try that. Not done
Piercing (permanent):4 Yeah, we could DEFINITELY try that. Not done
Prison scenes: 5 oh I would really dig that. Not done
Pony slave: 5 Make me collapse unter your burden! Done
Public exposure: 5 Oh the shame, oh the humiliation. What a turn on. Done a lot!
Public tasks: 5 Done and hated it. I mean loved it, erm hated it. You get the point!
Pussy/cock whipping: 5 Done. Need more.
Pussy worship: 2 I hate pussies. Could use it as a punishment!
Riding crops: 5 big torn on. Done
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): 5. Done. Get horny just about thinking it.
Rituals: 2
Religious scenes: 3 Could be intersting. Not done.
Restrictive rules on behavior: 5 I am slave. Done
Rubber/latex clothing: 1 If I really need to. :/ Not done.
Rope body harness: Dont know what that means. Sry!
Saran wrapping: 1 if you need it, why not? Not done.
Scratching – getting: 3 Could be great. Not done.
Scratching – giving: 2 not done.
Sensory deprivation: 5 DONE! It was great.
Serving: 5 I am a slave. Done of course.
Serving as art: 4 could be great. Not done.
Serving as ashtray: 3 Done.
Serving as furniture:5 Done. HOTNESS!
Serving as a maid: 1 I am proud of being a mean. Things like that bore me.
Serving as toilet: 0 No, never ever.
Serving as waitress/waiter: 1 If I have too. Not done.
Serving orally (sexual): 5 of course! Done
Serving other Doms (supervised): 5 of course! Done!!!
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): 5 Not done yet
Sexual deprivation (short term): 5 Absolutely necessary Done a lot
Sexual deprivation (long term): 5 Oh it was hell. Loved it! Done
Shaving (body hair): 0 !!!!! NEVER EVER!
Shaving (head hair): 0 !!!!! NEVER EVER!
Shaving (pubic hair): 0 !!!!! NEVER EVER!
Sleep deprivation: 4 Would LOVE to try that. Not done
Sleep-sacks: 2. sorry?
Slutty clothing (private): 1 Naaah, boring.
Slutty clothing (public): Define slutty please.
Spanking in private: 5 HOT! Done
Spanking in public: 5 HOT! Done
Spanking in bdsm parties: 5 HOT!!! NOT DONE
Spanking pleasure: Dont get that one. Sorry.
Spandex clothing: 2 Dont like it, but dont hate it either.
Speech restrictions (when, what): 3 Lets try it! Not done.
Speculums (Anal): 3 Not tried yet.
Speculums (vaginal): N / A
Spreader bars: 5 I love those thingies. Done
Standing in corner: 3 That really is a punishment for me, especially if other people are around. Done (only naked )
Stocks (adjustable): BIG TURN ON 5 Done
Stocks (fixed): BIG TURN ON 5 Done
Straight jackets: 2 Those are not appealing to me. Not done.
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): 1 Bores me, sorry. Not done.
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): 2 Sounds a bit more interesting, but still boring.
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): 1 I have, why would I wear such a thing? Not done.
Strapping (full body beating): 5 yes please Done !
Suspension (upright); 5 big turn on, Done
Suspension (inverted): 3 Do not like that too much, which makes it a great punishment. Done
Suspension (horizontal): 5 yes pf course, Done
Supplying new partners for Dom: ?
Swallowing semen: 5 Hehe, I am a slut. Done a lot
Swallowing urine: 0 Nope, not going to happen. Sorry. Not done
Swapping (with one other couple): 2 not done
Swinging (multiple couples):2 not done
Tattooing: 3 Maybe! Not done.
Teasing: 5 LOVE THAT. Done
Tickling: 5 I nearly die of tickling, great thing to punish me. Done
Triple penetration: N/A
Triple penetration by 3 males: N/A
Uniforms: 2 Do not matter for me. Not done.
Including others: 5 Yes please. Done
Vaginal dildo: N/A
Verbal humiliation: 3 , done
Vibrator on genitals: 4, done
Voyeurism (watching others): 3 done
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): Sorry?
Video (watching others): 3 Hehe, done
Video (recordings of you): 5 Please do that. And than show my friends. HOT! not done
Water torture: 5, would love to but never done.
Wearing symbolic jewelry: 1 Naaah, not done
Whipping: 5 Have been done until I was all bloody, unbelievable pain. HOT! done
Wooden paddles: 5 of course
Wrestling: 5 very interesting idea. Not done





my god, thinking of what I have done already really made me hard. thanks hope some of you have a nice read. if any questions arise, go ahead!

[Beatrice]

Abrasion:
Age play:
Anal sex:
Anal plugs (small): no, 3
Anal plugs (large): no, 2
Anal plug (public, under clothes): no, 0
Animal roles: yes, 2
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): yes, 3
Asphyxiation: yes, 0
Auctioned for charity: no, NO
Bathroom use control: yes, 0
Bestiality: no, NO
Beating (soft): yes, 1
Beating (hard): no, NO
Blindfolds: yes, 3
Being serviced (sexual): yes, 4
Being bitten: yes, 1
Breast/chest bondage: no, 4
Breath control: yes, 2
Branding: no, NO
Boot worship: no, 3
Bondage (light): yes, 3
Bondage (heavy): yes, 3
Bondage (multi-day): no, 0
Bondage (public, under clothing): no, NO
Bondage and Sex: yes, 3
Breast whipping: no, 0
Brown showers (scat): no, 0
Cages (locked inside of): yes, 5
Caning: no, 0
Catheterization: no, 0
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): yes, 3
Chastity belts: no, 3
Chauffeuring: yes, 2
Choking: no, 0
Clothespins breast/nipples: no, 0
Clothespins labia lips/clit: no, 0
Clothespins body: no, 0
Cock worship: yes, 3
Collars (worn in private): yes, 5
Collars (worn in public): no, NO
Competitions (with other Subs): no, 0
Corsets (wearing): yes, 3
Cuffs: yes, 3
Cuffs (metal): yes, 3
Cutting: yes, 0
Dilation: no, 0
Double penetration: yes, 2
Electricity: no, NO
Enemas: no, 0
Enforced chastity: no, 0
Examinations (physical): no, 3
Exercise (forced/required): no, 5
Exhibitionism (friends): no, NO
Exhibitionism (strangers): no, NO
Eye contact restrictions: no, 3
Face slapping: no, 0
Fantasy abandonment: no, 1
Fantasy rape: yes, 3
Fantasy forced deep throat: no, 2
Fantasy forced cunt licking: no, 2
Fantasy forced rape anal: no, 2
Fantasy gang-rape: no, 2
Fisting (anal): no, 0
Fisting (vaginal): no, 0
Flogging: no, 0
Following hand signals: no, 2
Following orders: yes, 3
Foot worship: no, 2
Forced dressing: yes, 5
Forced homosexuality: no, 3
Forced masturbation: no, 0
Forced nudity (private): no, 3
Forced nudity (around others): no, NO
Forced servitude: no, 5
Full head hoods: no, 2
Gags (cloth): no, 2
Gags (penis shaped):no, 3
Gags (rubber): no, 3
Gags (tape): no, 3
Gates of Hell: no, 2
Genital sex: yes, 3
Given away to another Dom (temp): no, NO
Given away to another Domme (temp): no, NO
Given away to another Dom (perm): no, NO
Given away to another Domme (perm): no, NO
Golden showers: no, 1
Greetings rituals: no, 2
Hairbrush spankings: no, 1
Hair pulling: no, 4
Hand jobs (giving): yes, 3
Hand jobs (receiving): yes, 3
Harems (serving w/other subs): no, 1
Harnessing (leather): no, 4
Harnessing (rope): no, 5
Having food chosen for you: no, 3
Having clothing chosen for you: no, 3
Head (giving cunnilingus): yes, 3
Head (giving fellatio): yes, 3
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): yes, 3
Head (receiving fellatio male only):
High heel worship: yes, 3
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): no, 2
Hot oils (on genitals): no, 0
Hot waxing: no, 0
Housework (doing): yes, 5
Human puppy dog: no, 3
Humiliation (private): yes, 3
Humiliation (public): no, NO
Hypnotism: no, 0
Ice cubes: no, 2
Infantilism: yes, 4
Initiation rites: no, 2
Injections: no, 0
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: no, 3
Interrogations: no, 3
Kidnapping: no, 3
Kneeling: yes, 4
Leather clothing: no, 2
restraints chains: yes, 2
restraints leather: no, 2
restraints rope: no, 2
Lectures for misbehavior: yes, 5
Licking (non-sexual): yes, 2
Manacles & Irons: no, 3
Manicures (giving): no, 2
Massage (giving): no, 2
Massage (receiving): no, 2
Medical scenes: no, 1

Modeling for erotic photos: no, 2
Modeling for erotic videos: no, 1
Mouth bits: no, 5
Mummification: no, 1
Nipple clamps: no, 1
Nipple cloths pins: no, 0
Nipple weights: no, 0
Oral/anal play (rimming): yes, 1
Over-the-knee spanking: yes, 4
Orgasm denial: no, NO
Orgasm control: no, NO
Outdoor scenes: no, 2
Outdoor sex: no, 2
Phone sex (serving Dom): no, 0
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): no, NO
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): no, 2
Piercing (permanent): no, NO
Prison scenes: no, 2
Pony slave: no, 5
Public exposure: no, NO
Public tasks: no, NO
Pussy/cock whipping: no, 2
Pussy worship: no, 2
Riding crops: no, 2
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): no, 0
Rituals: no, 2
Religious scenes: no, 0
Restrictive rules on behavior: no, 5
Rubber/latex clothing: no, 1
Rope body harness: no, 2
Saran wrapping: no, 1
Scratching – getting: yes, 3
Scratching – giving: yes, 3
Sensory deprivation: no, 2
Serving: yes, 3
Serving as art: no, 2
Serving as ashtray: no, 1
Serving as furniture: no, 5
Serving as a maid: no, 5
Serving as toilet: no, NO
Serving as waitress/waiter: no, 3
Serving orally (sexual): yes, 3
Serving other Doms (supervised): no, NO
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): no, NO
Sexual deprivation (short term): no, 0
Sexual deprivation (long term): no, NO
Shaving (body hair): yes, 2
Shaving (head hair): no, 0
Shaving (pubic hair): no, 0
Sleep deprivation: yes, 2
Sleep-sacks: no, 1
Slutty clothing (private): yes, 5
Slutty clothing (public): no, NO
Spanking in private: yes, 4
Spanking in public: no, NO
Spanking in bdsm parties: no, 2
Spanking pleasure: yes, 3
Spandex clothing: no, 1
Speech restrictions (when, what): no, 5 (temporarily, during specified scenes, specifics can vary)
Speculums (Anal): No, 1
Speculums (vaginal): No, 1
Spreader bars: No, 2
Standing in corner: No, 5
Stocks (adjustable): No, 4
Stocks (fixed): No, 4
Straight jackets: No, 1
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): Yes, 3
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): Yes, 3
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): Yes, 2
Strapping (full body beating): No, 0
Suspension (upright); No, 2
Suspension (inverted): No, 1
Suspension (horizontal): No, 2
Supplying new partners for Dom: no, NO
Swallowing semen: yes, 2
Swallowing urine: no, NO
Swapping (with one other couple): no, NO
Swinging (multiple couples): no, NO
Tattooing: no, NO
Teasing: yes, 3
Tickling: yes, 2
Triple penetration: no, 2
Triple penetration by 3 males: no, 0
Uniforms: yes, 5
Including others: no, NO
Vaginal dildo: yes, 3
Verbal humiliation: yes, 5
Vibrator on genitals: yes, 2
Voyeurism (watching others): yes, 4
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): yes, 4
Video (watching others): yes, 3
Video (recordings of you): no, 2
Water torture: no, 1
Wearing symbolic jewelry: yes, 4
Whipping: no, 1
Wooden paddles: no, 2
Wrestling: yes, 3

[gettinghorny]

thats a hell of a list

[MG_cleo]

For those who are "in negotiation" it is perhaps useful to have your own copy, which I am happy to provide from our website.

The following link, for a checklist http://www.seekers.org.uk/checklist1.htm gives a choice of either a downloadable word document or a pdf file (select the appropriate link) which can be filled in, mailed etc. Checklists, as has been said are great for testing compatibility, as well as creating talking points between partners. There will likely be stuff on the list you dont understand or have never heard of: that way you can extend your knowledge and go and google it or find out what the activity entails. Our site has a dictionary too, but there are many other resources as well.

MG

[Cool Luke's Hand]

Disclaimer: I have not experienced these activities, and so these scores are nothing but theoretical. The activities involving penises (cock worship and such) are scored with respect to strap-ons; all activities strictly involving penises would get a Yes, 0 score from me.


Abrasion:
Age play: Yes, 3
Anal sex: Yes, 4
Anal plugs (small): Yes, 5
Anal plugs (large): Yes, 3
Anal plug (public, under clothes): Yes, 4
Animal roles: Yes, 4
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): Yes, 2
Asphyxiation: NO
Auctioned for charity: Yes, 0
Bathroom use control: Yes, 1
Bestiality: NO
Beating (soft): Yes, 4
Beating (hard): Yes, 2
Blindfolds: Yes, 4
Being serviced (sexual): Yes, 1
Being bitten: Yes, 0
Breast/chest bondage: N/A
Breath control: NO
Branding: NO
Boot worship: Yes, 3
Bondage (light): Yes, 5
Bondage (heavy): Yes, 4
Bondage (multi-day): Yes, 0
Bondage (public, under clothing): Yes, 4
Bondage and Sex: Yes, 5
Breast whipping: N/A
Brown showers (scat): NO
Cages (locked inside of): Yes, 3
Caning: Yes, 4
Catheterization: NO
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): Yes, 3
Chastity belts: Yes, 1
Chauffeuring: Yes, 2
Choking: NO
Clothespins breast/nipples: Yes, 5
Clothespins labia lips/clit: N/A
Clothespins body: Yes, 2
Cock worship: Yes, 0
Collars (worn in private): Yes, 5
Collars (worn in public): NO
Competitions (with other Subs): Yes, 4
Corsets (wearing): Yes, 3
Cuffs: Yes, 5
Cuffs (metal): Yes, 5
Cutting: NO
Dilation: NO
Double penetration: Yes, 3
Electricity: Yes, 0
Enemas: Yes, 3
Enforced chastity: Yes, 0
Examinations (physical): Yes, 4
Exercise (forced/required): Yes, 0
Exhibitionism (friends): Yes, 4
Exhibitionism (strangers): NO
Eye contact restrictions: Yes, 3
Face slapping: Yes, 2
Fantasy abandonment: N/A [Don't know what that is]
Fantasy rape: Yes, 3
Fantasy forced deep throat: Yes, 5
Fantasy forced cunt licking: Yes, 5
Fantasy forced rape anal: Yes, 4
Fantasy gang-rape: Yes, 3
Fisting (anal): Yes, 1
Fisting (vaginal): N/A
Flogging: Yes, 3
Foot worship: Yes, 2
Forced dressing: Yes, 1
Forced homosexuality: NO
Forced masturbation: Yes, 3
Forced nudity (private): Yes, 4
Forced nudity (around others): Around friends, yes, 3. Around strangers, NO
Forced servitude: Yes, 2
Full head hoods: Yes, 0
Gags (cloth): Yes, 3
Gags (penis shaped): Yes, 5
Gags (rubber): Yes, 5
Gags (tape): Yes, 3
Gates of Hell: NO
Genital sex: As in...normal sex? Yes, 5
Given away to another Dom (temp): Yes, 0
Given away to another Domme (temp): Yes, 3
Given away to another Dom (perm): NO
Given away to another Domme (perm): Yes, 0
Golden showers: Yes, 1
Greetings rituals: Yes, 3
Hairbrush spankings: Yes, 4
Hair pulling: Yes, 2
Hand jobs (giving): Yes, 0
Hand jobs (receiving): Yes, 5
Harems (serving w/other subs): Yes, 4
Harnessing (leather): Yes, 3
Harnessing (rope): Yes, 3
Having food chosen for you: NO
Having clothing chosen for you: Yes, 4
Head (giving cunnilingus): Yes, 5
Head (giving fellatio): Yes, 5
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): N/A
Head (receiving fellatio male only): Yes, 5
High heel worship: Yes, 3
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): Yes, 4
Hot oils (on genitals): NO
Hot waxing: NO
Housework (doing): Yes, 1
Human puppy dog: Yes, 3
Humiliation (private): Yes, 5
Humiliation (public): Yes, 0
Hypnotism: NO
Ice cubes: Yes, 2
Infantilism: Yes, 3
Initiation rites: Yes, 2
Injections: NO
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: Yes, 4
Interrogations: Don't know what this entails
Kidnapping: Yes, 1
Kneeling: Yes, 4
Leather clothing: Yes, 5
restraints chains: Yes, 5
restraints leather: Yes, 5
restraints rope: Yes, 5
Lectures for misbehavior: Yes, 1
Licking (non-sexual): Yes, 2
Manacles & Irons: Yes, 5
Manicures (giving): NO
Massage (giving): Yes, 3
Massage (receiving): Yes, 3
Medical scenes: Yes, 2
Modeling for erotic photos: Yes, 0
Modeling for erotic videos: Yes, 0
Mouth bits: Yes, 4
Mummification: NO
Nipple clamps: Yes, 5
Nipple cloths pins: Yes, 4
Nipple weights: Yes, 5
Oral/anal play (rimming): Yes, 4
Over-the-knee spanking: Yes, 5
Orgasm denial: Yes, 3
Orgasm control: Yes, 3
Outdoor scenes: Yes, 1
Outdoor sex: Yes, 2
Phone sex (serving Dom): Yes, 4
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): Yes, 1
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): Yes, 2
Piercing (permanent): Yes, 0
Prison scenes: Yes, 4
Pony slave: Yes, 3
Public exposure: NO
Public tasks: NO
Pussy/cock whipping: NO
Pussy worship: Yes, 4
Riding crops: Yes, 3
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): N/A, I don't know if that can be done to a male sub
Rituals: Yes, 2
Religious scenes: Yes, 0
Restrictive rules on behavior: Yes, 4
Rubber/latex clothing: Yes, 5
Rope body harness: Yes, 3
Saran wrapping: NO
Scratching – getting: Yes, 2
Scratching – giving: Yes, 2
Sensory deprivation: NO
Serving: Yes, 5
Serving as art: Yes, 5
Serving as ashtray: NO
Serving as furniture: Yes, 5
Serving as a maid: Yes, 5
Serving as toilet: NO
Serving as waitress/waiter: Yes, 5
Serving orally (sexual): Yes, 3
Serving other Doms (supervised): Yes, 4
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): Yes, 3
Sexual deprivation (short term): Yes, 2
Sexual deprivation (long term): Yes, 0
Shaving (body hair): Yes, 3
Shaving (head hair): NO
Shaving (pubic hair): Yes, 4
Sleep deprivation: NO
Sleep-sacks: NO
Slutty clothing (private): Yes, 5
Slutty clothing (public): Yes, 0
Spanking in private: Yes, 5
Spanking in public: NO
Spanking in bdsm parties: Yes, 4
Spanking pleasure: Yes, 5
Spandex clothing: Yes, 4
Speculums (Anal): Yes, 0
Speculums (vaginal): N/A
Spreader bars: Yes, 3
Standing in corner: Yes, 2
Stocks (adjustable): Yes, 3
Stocks (fixed): Yes, 3
Straight jackets: Yes, 0
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): Yes, 5
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): Yes, 5
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): NO
Strapping (full body beating): Yes, 0
Suspension (upright); Yes, 4
Suspension (inverted): NO
Suspension (horizontal): Yes, 2
Supplying new partners for Dom: Yes, 0
Swallowing semen: Yes, 3
Swallowing urine: Yes, 0
Swapping (with one other couple): Yes, 3
Swinging (multiple couples): Yes, 3
Tattooing: NO
Teasing: Yes, 4
Tickling: Yes, 3
Triple penetration: N/A
Triple penetration by 3 males: N/A
Uniforms: Yes, 5
Including others: Yes, 4
Vaginal dildo: N/A
Verbal humiliation: Yes, 3
Vibrator on genitals: Yes, 5
Voyeurism (watching others): Yes, 5
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): Yes, 5
Video (watching others): Yes, 5
Video (recordings of you): Yes, 1
Water torture: NO
Wearing symbolic jewelry: Yes, 4
Whipping: Yes, 2
Wooden paddles: Yes, 4
Wrestling: Yes, 2

[bellaslut]

Abrasion: yes 5
Age play:no 4
Anal sex:yes 2
Anal plugs (small):yes 5
Anal plugs (large):no 3
Anal plug (public, under clothes): yes 5
Animal roles: no 5
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders):no 3
Asphyxiation: no 0
Auctioned for charity: no 0
Bathroom use control: no 5
Bestiality: no 0
Beating (soft): yes 5
Beating (hard): no 4
Blindfolds: yes 5
Being serviced (sexual): yes 5
Being bitten: yes 5
Breast/chest bondage: no 3
Breath control: no 0
Branding: no 0
Boot worship: no 5
Bondage (light): yes 5
Bondage (heavy): yes 5
Bondage (multi-day): no 0
Bondage (public, under clothing): no 5
Bondage and Sex: yes 5
Breast whipping: yes 5
Brown showers (scat): no 0
Cages (locked inside of): no 5
Caning: yes 5
Catheterization: no 0
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): no 0
Chastity belts: no 3
Chauffeuring: no 5
Choking: no 0
Clothespins breast/nipples: yes 5
Clothespins labia lips/clit:yes 5
Clothespins body: yes 5
Cock worship: no 2
Collars (worn in private): yes 5
Collars (worn in public): no 5
Competitions (with other Subs): no 5
Corsets (wearing): no 4
Cuffs: yes 5
Cuffs (metal): yes 5
Cutting: no 0
Dilation: no 0
Double penetration: no 2
Electricity: no0
Enemas: no 5
Enforced chastity: no 2
Examinations (physical): no 5
Exercise (forced/required): no 5
Exhibitionism (friends): no 3
Exhibitionism (strangers): no 2
Eye contact restrictions: no 5
Face slapping: yes 5
Fantasy abandonment: no 0
Fantasy rape: no 3
Fantasy forced deep throat: no 2
Fantasy forced cunt licking: no 5
Fantasy forced rape anal: no 0
Fantasy gang-rape: no 0
Fisting (anal): no 0
Fisting (vaginal): no 0
Flogging: yes 5
Following hand signals: no 4
Following orders: yes 5
Foot worship: no 5
Forced dressing: no 5
Forced homosexuality: N/A
Forced masturbation: yes 5
Forced nudity (private):yes 5
Forced nudity (around others):no 5
Forced servitude: no 3
Full head hoods: no 0
Gags (cloth): no 0
Gags (penis shaped):no 5
Gags (rubber): yes 5
Gags (tape): no 4
Gates of Hell:no 0
Given away to another Dom (temp): no 2
Given away to another Domme (temp):no 3
Given away to another Dom (perm): no 0
Given away to another Domme (perm): no 0
Golden showers: no 5
Greetings rituals: no 5
Hairbrush spankings: yes 5
Hair pulling: yes 5
Hand jobs (giving): yes 3
Hand jobs (receiving):
Harems (serving w/other subs): no 5
Harnessing (leather): no 5
Harnessing (rope): yes 5
Having food chosen for you: no 5
Having clothing chosen for you: yes 5
Head (giving cunnilingus): yes 5
Head (giving fellatio): yes 3
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): yes 5
Head (receiving fellatio male only):
High heel worship: no 5
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): no 5
Hot oils (on genitals): no 4
Hot waxing: no 4
Housework (doing): no 5
Human puppy dog: yes 5
Humiliation (private):yes 5
Humiliation (public): yes 3
Hypnotism: no 0
Ice cubes: yes 5
Infantilism: no 4
Initiation rites: no 3
Injections: no 0
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: no 5
Interrogations: no 3
Kidnapping: no 0
Kneeling: yes 5
Leather clothing: no 2
restraints chains: no 5
restraints leather: yes 5
restraints rope: yes 5
Lectures for misbehavior: yes 5
Licking (non-sexual): no 5
Manacles & Irons: no 5
Manicures (giving): no 3
Massage (giving): yes 5
Massage (receiving): yes 5
Medical scenes: no 5

Modeling for erotic photos: yes 2
Modeling for erotic videos: no 0
Mouth bits: no 5
Mummification: no 0
Nipple clamps: yes 5
Nipple cloths pins: yes 5
Nipple weights: no 4
Oral/anal play (rimming): yes 5
Over-the-knee spanking: yes 5
Orgasm denial: yes 5
Orgasm control: yes 5
Outdoor scenes: yes 3
Outdoor sex: yes 4
Phone sex (serving Dom): no 5
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): no 5
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): no 4
Piercing (permanent): no 0
Prison scenes: no 5
Pony slave: no 5
Public exposure: yes 2
Public tasks: yes 5
Pussy/cock whipping: yes 5
Pussy worship: yes 5
Riding crops: no 5
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): no 4
Rituals:
Religious scenes: no 0
Restrictive rules on behavior: yes 5
Rubber/latex clothing: no 2
Rope body harness: no 2
Saran wrapping:no 2
Scratching – getting: yes 5
Scratching – giving: yes 5
Sensory deprivation: no 2
Serving:
Serving as art: no 5
Serving as ashtray: no 5
Serving as furniture: no 5
Serving as a maid: no 5
Serving as toilet: no 4
Serving as waitress/waiter: no 5
Serving orally (sexual): yes 5
Serving other Doms (supervised): no 3
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): no 0
Sexual deprivation (short term): yes 5
Sexual deprivation (long term): no 1
Shaving (body hair): yes 3
Shaving (head hair): no 0
Shaving (pubic hair): yes 5
Sleep deprivation: no 0
Sleep-sacks: no 0
Slutty clothing (private): yes 5
Slutty clothing (public): no 2
Spanking in private: yes 5
Spanking in public: no 5
Spanking in bdsm parties: no 5
Spanking pleasure: yes 5
Spandex clothing: no 1
Speech restrictions (when, what): no 5
Speculums (Anal): no 2
Speculums (vaginal): no 2
Spreader bars: no 5
Standing in corner: yes 5
Stocks (adjustable): no 5
Stocks (fixed): no 5
Straight jackets: no 3
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): No 5
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): No 5
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): No 5
Strapping (full body beating): No 5
Suspension (upright); No 4
Suspension (inverted): No 4
Suspension (horizontal): No 4
Supplying new partners for Dom: No 2
Swallowing semen: Yes 3
Swallowing urine: No 3
Swapping (with one other couple): No 2
Swinging (multiple couples): No 2
Tattooing: No 0
Teasing: Yes 5
Tickling: Yes 3
Triple penetration: No 1
Triple penetration by 3 males: No 0
Uniforms: No 4
Including others: No 4
Vaginal dildo: Yes 5
Verbal humiliation: Yes 5
Vibrator on genitals: Yes 5
Voyeurism (watching others): No 3
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): No 3
Video (watching others): Yes 5
Video (recordings of you): No0
Water torture: No 0
Wearing symbolic jewelry: No 5
Whipping: Yes 5
Wooden paddles: Yes 5
Wrestling: Yes 3