Quote Originally Posted by KittenSilver
He also says that he feels very sorry for what he used to do. He was almost in tears when he thought about past experiences he has had. I don't know the details but he was very much into it for a while. I'm not sure what to make of all of this. And I don't want to do anything that could bring up bad memories for him. Just looking for any advice, thanks in advance.

Although he loved it when I put a collar on him, although that only happened once.

Yep, I'm Confused!!!
Hmmm. this is a challenge. I'm guessing by the collar thing that he wants to sub to you? What excites him about that idea? Does he enjoy discipline, enjoy being reprimanded?

What do you enjoy? Would you enjoy being in control?

We need more info... but it sounds like some light tying would be okay. Certainly some roleplay, telling him to do things you like. Talk more... tell us what you both want, and where you both want to set the limit. Obviously, talking together is a much better idea, but if you can't figure out what you want between the two of you, come back here and tell us what you don't want, and we'll try to make some sense of it for you.

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