Call me lazy.. but not going to quote each person
lucy: nothing ever humble about my opinions and nothing controversial about your. When I speak of cumming on command I am referring to single word near instant orgasms. Not orgasm control on a broader scope.
I also agree with you completely as to what is actually being said as opposed to the words used that was my point
as for the only training worth anything being the last and that being the only true form of Ds. On this point we totally disagree. How can a submissive even understand what she wants or enjoy's without experience? Did you marry the first guy you dated? Probably not, dating is relationship training its how you learn what you want in a mate. Ds training is learning what you want in a Dom.
On the last point again we disagree. There is no one way to Ds or BDSM so there can be NO true way. Also Ds is one on one even in a group the submission is between the Dominant and the submissive and she is submissive to his desires not a blanket submissive to any person that tells them what to do unless her Dominant deems it so. If he does then its still one on one in she still following command to do as other says. By your reference there could be no chain of command the military or middle managers int he corporate world etc etc.
Wontworry: well I'm glad you enjoy it, I've trained it in girls in the past and find the training wonderful but the final result boring. To each there own and glad you enjoy the control and headspace it gives you. More power to ya
Lia: yes, its true. I've trained it in 4 girls in the last 9 years with different stimulant response systems. As Wontworry said, the power of it is intoxicating, but in my experiences I find that fades quickly in time for both the sub and the Dom.
to all: Feel free to ask questions. Feel even more free to argue and disagree with me. My opinions and experiences are my own I share them simply to benefit others. Doesn't mean your wrong or I am wrong if we disagree.