You speak the truth Mr Veide... :-[

I know this all too well, from role playing. Characters, entangled in that spiders web, really wanting to submit, but knowing it's wrong to do so. Finding the Vampire extremely charming and erotic, it's hard saying no. But in saying no, it takes the fantasy further, deepens it, enhances it. The teasing can go on for what seems an eternity, it's part of the whole deal.

I'll stop before I write a novel here and now.