This has been an interesting thread to read and I appreciate the chance to think deeper on this subject. If I may, I'd like to respond to one of the first lines from Eraser:

What is being trained? What does it mean to be trained?
I find myself drawn to this idea although I haven't really expressed it to Alaric in those words. (or anyone else for that matter....it does sound pretty silly afterall) For me, "training" is almost a desire to be "forced" over the line from fantasizing and into reality. I know the things that I'd like to try....the things that make me crazy with desire when I read about them here in the forum....but I find it difficult at times to reconcile those feelings with the other roles I have to play. In my mind, a trainer would not let me make excuses or hide from what I physically desire. He would force me to confront (and embrace!) my inner fuck-slut. :exit: