Quote Originally Posted by Lia
While I find this idea facinating, I also wonder if it could possibly be true! How do you train a sub to cum on command? I know I take a while to get there, even on my good days. Any suggestions here are welcome and ENCOURAGED!!!
Hi Lia (welcome to the forums)

Please understand that when I say ‘cum on command’ I am not talking about Pavlov’s dog. I am (fairly) sure that if my sub was shopping in Tescos and I phoned her and said “cum” then she couldn’t do it instantly (although it might be fun finding out).

How we got to the point where she now cums within seconds of my command was fairly simple. Firstly, she is a very sexual girl and wishes/needs to cum frequently. Secondly, she loves my voice which is probably helped by the fact that I have an accent that she does not hear very often. Thirdly, we have a bond between us that is more than just Ds and this has helped immensely for something as personal as cumming on command.

When we first started to play, it wasn’t long before I recognised the point where she was teetering on the edge of an orgasm and I used that knowledge to either make her wait or to ensure she came very soon after I gave her permission. As we progressed she is now able to cum virtually when I say. Although I do not order her to cum when we aren’t in a scene, I have played with her in real life for a very short period (say a minute), then told her to cum and been truly proud that she has an orgasm almost instantly.