Punishment Vs. Play

[MajesticFae]

I agree with you guys. Disappointing your Dom is probably one of the worst feelings in the world. I think it's a lot like self punishment, you know you did something to upset him and it can really take a toll on your mental state.

Sure we all act a little bratty just to get those swats that we love, but we know when we've crossed the line and we feel it. It's an awful feeling to know that you're a disappointment.

[Selash]

For me Punishment vs. Play is a fine line. When a sub gets out of line I lament the pain i have to deal, without its connective pleasure of me also enjoying whats going on. I have found that expressing my did pleasure generally corrects the error, but if not the punishment is definatly different from my play.