To Shhhh or not to Shhh THAT is the question!

[nk_lion]

Having just simple vanilla sex, I don't like hearing my voice over hers, so I've just gotten used to remaining silent (relatively speaking). But I do love the sound of a woman during sex, its such an increadible turn on for me.

[jeanne]

Hmmm, this is a good question. During vanilla sex, I talk a little, moan a little, hum a little, in my normal voice but softer. But, when BDSM is part of it, my voice seems to come from a different place in my throat - very low register sounding. I couldn't do it deliberately if I tried, it just happens that way. I think I actually talk less then too.

What I like to hear: dirty words, any phrase with "my" or "mine" in it, any order or demand, any compliments on ability or endurance. Preferably in a low, harsh voice. I like knowing I am pleasing him enough that he tells me about it.

[tessa]

What I like to hear: dirty words, any phrase with "my" or "mine" in it, any order or demand, any compliments on ability or endurance. Preferably in a low, harsh voice. I like knowing I am pleasing him enough that he tells me about it.

Oh wow. Very well said.