Thank you everyone..

I'll let you know how things improve

On a positive not, he did make a little pee-pee in his potty yesterday for the first time!! It was sort of an accident- I had gotten him undressed for his bath and he started peeing on the floor, so I quickly moved him in front of his potty and he continued there.

But he was smiling while he was doing it, (and before when I've moved him in front of the big potty, he resisted) so I think he liked it. Then we took the little potty and dumped the pee-pee in the big potty and he flushed (which he's been doing and he likes). Yay!

(I am aware doing the potty training and getting him to bed on his own may be too much at one time with him, but the potty training is going really loosely- just letting the potty be there and if he wants to sit in it, i let him. not really pushing that issue)

Anyway... more advice always welcome