lucyboy, what a cutie-pie you are! Delightful! Can't wait to see the next set of fab pics.

I am distressed, however, that you would choose to stop the discussion you have going here. This is a community of strong opinions and even stonger people expressing those opinions. Not everyone can agree on each point made, no matter who is saying it. You hold this matter very close to heart, so when anyone says anything that seems to "attack" your position, of course you are going to see it as such. But I have been here for a bit now, and even when opinions differ greatly between members, respect and value for the other has prevailed in 9 out of 10 times. My guess is that if something you said is pointed out by another, it is only as a way to gain some more clarity and insight from you. And in that way, perhaps you shine new light on this subject for yourself? Just a thought.

Knowing that the journey can sometimes be difficult to navigate, I wish you nothing but all the best in your search for the One. May she be all you ever desired and more.

But please? Don't discontinue what is obviously a thoughtful, intelligent discourse on a subject from which many may truly benefit.

tessa