I know that feeling from the Dom's perspective and I am moving to her since she just can't live here. If I can answer the why not move with him for you, she has said she didn't know him that long. A move with him could be great but it may not have reached that point for them to both feel comfortable with it.

You will find another one, I am sure but be carefull in the selection, just because he was good for you doesn't mean any old "Dom" will be or that he is real.