Good manners when sevicing a Master

[Finding_Fantasy]

when i see a woman sucking a man with her eyes closed it makes me very cross! what is he supposed to think? that he is ugly, not fit to be seen? this is NOT good manners.

I close my eyes for the simple fact that it gives me better feeling. It goes along with that whole "you deprive one sense and the other increases". My sense of feel with my lips and tongue are better and I can use them better. Also, my sense of hearing increases and I can tell if he is enjoying the particular technique I am using or if I have to switch to something else.

And, to be honest, I believe that, because of increases perception, my dominant likes it with my eyes closed. You and your former domiannts may consider it to be bad manners and "slovenly" but what is good for the goose is not always what is good for the gander. We do what works for us and that is having my eyes closed and though it is not right for you, that does not mean it is wrong all around. We each have our own tastes and because our tastes are different, does not make it wrong. There is no one way of doing things when it comes to BDSM.

a woman giving lip-service should keep her eyes open at all times.

That is your opinion and you are entitled to it. But because it does not work for us, does not make it wrong.

most men, espescially black men, like to see a woman in a thong and suspender belt and stockings. i was told by my husband, Mark that when i was dressing for a "session" that i must always take that bit of extra care over my make-up and underwear.

It's a nice thought, but not all women can wear things and/or make up. Like myself, they do not make thongs in my size. And make up... well I usually don't wear any because of skin allergies. It would be nice, yes, but not practical. Again, I do what I can and it works for us, but again, that does not make it wrong.

i hope all the subs out there will take this advice in the spirit in which it is intended.

And thank you for sharing. It is always interesting to see how other people do things even if we do them differently.