I agree with all of you but Whippet.I also think he or she is very young and has not seen enough of life to give advice to anyone.And certainly not to condem anyones lifestyle or actions.But as with most people who have few facts they tend to stress their lack of knowledege by makeing a big thing out of things they know nothing about.
I am over 60 years of age and have seen enough of life that I do not have a problem with what other people do as long as it does not affect me.So all I can say to Whippet is let it go,it is none of your bussiness.