thanks all...it seems a super cool place from what i've just observed within the last few minutes..i forgot to mention that i've written some stories..mostly involving tickle torture, but also involving b/d play..o always bondage...it's a must for me..i find it a major turn on...thanks again o and i've had practically no experience in the Dom/sub lifestyle other than online..i'm married to a way way way vanilla..did i mention way?

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