I have read this thread through and I think there are many well thought out points made here. However this thread is also becoming argumentative and that needs to end or I will lock it. Everyones point of view deserves respect and while you don't have to agree with it, some of the posts have come across as inciting.

Originally Posted by lucyboy
I have already defended my position enough times you are just repeating the same misinterpretations I have already dealt with. I might deal with you're posts later but I get the feeling this is spiraling away into bickering

Lucyboy if you would like to discuss anything further via pm with me I will be happy to answer that way but as tessa has said, no one here wishes to engage in bickering and I think that you would find a world of support in the members here for any issue you wish to discuss.