why is the bdsm scene so narrow??

[lucyboy]

Ok thankyou Natalie I appreciate that and I assure you you are wrong about me attacking anyone.

I have not, knowingly attacked anyone, I do not wish to attack anyone all I wanted to do was passionately defend my views.

I understand that many of you are picturing an angry little rejected man sitting here all lonely petulantly typing away with feelings of hurt in my heart.

Well that is not me it is a mirage that people are applying to my words.

I'm happy and not hurt, I'm positive not negative. I'm assertive not aggressive and I'm livin life to the full not being lonely and petulant.

Please people don't attach emotions to my words that are not there. Once again I assure you I'm not angry or attacking anyone.

Peace my lovlies xxx

[gloombunny]

No, see... when I say "even though you claim you're not, you really are attacking people", you're supposed to say something like "But I don't see where I attacked anyone. Can you point out some examples?" To just claim again that you're not attacking anyone is rather missing the point.

You accuse people of double standards and hypocrisy. That's an attack. You use straw-man arguments, ascribing unfair motivations to anyone who disagrees with you and then chewing them out for having unfair motivations. That, too, is an attack. You play martyr and bemoan how misperceived you are, which lets you indirectly label everyone who disagrees with you as an unreasonable bully. That's like some kind of fucked-up meta-attack on the entire conversation.

Actions speak louder than words, and words like "I'm positive not negative" and "I can assure you I'm not upset" are getting pretty drowned out here.