6 months ago I would have said sub without even having to think about it. It was just more the way I was and had always felt. Any woman I had been with I wanted to make feel as though they were the most special thing in the world, no matter how or what I would have to do to prove that.

Recently though something has changed and I would be more inclined to go Dom. I don't really know what caused or why the change has occured, i just feel more dom now and nearly all of my fantasies are dom related rather than sub related now. It could be that until recently my real dom experiences were very thin on the ground and so I just wasn't aware of what it was like to be a dom. I really get off on the idea of being completley in control of another and watching their anticipation and wondering of what is coming next.

That doesn't mean I wouldn't miss the sub side of stuff though, it would be a massive part of me to give up and would need a lot of careful thought. Things just wouldn't be the same for me if either lifestyle went.