thank you both for your ideas... they rather mirror what i was thinking, i was just unsure of my own theories because i am not the most experienced sub around.
i was thinking a lot more mechanized type things, so he could push more buttons than tieing and tugging.
and i really thought the wheelchair would almost be more... domineering, than a man standing tall. He couldn't force me from a wheelchair... and he would need me more than a healthy able bodied Dom.
thank ye. all the ideas are helpful and welcome.
Teni