Quote Originally Posted by Nightstriker
With my lack of any real life experience in sceneing I am gonna toss my hat into this.

The simplest that I can say is just do what feels right. Know what you and your partner both like and then just go nuts. Move from one activity to the other, if a break from the intensity is needed take one as you prepare for the next or bind them all together and just have one long night of pleasure.
I think that's where I'm feeling a little conflicted, NS. Not having heard the debrief from him, I think I took things a bit lighter than he wanted.

That being said, I did what I was comfortable with, and I'm pretty satisfied with that too.

Thanks everyone :-)

cg