If you don't mind me putting my two penneth in. I can't speak for your partner but I can speak for myself. If the sexual gratification comes too easily it's not a turn on. OK it might be a wank job but it's not deeply and psychologically a turn on that will bring me back to the story time and again. Even with ones partner who is willing to give everything you want and whenever you want it, you still have to work at keeping the relationship going to be in that situation. The problem I have with a lot of stories on this site is that the sex comes too easily. You want sex, rape her! You want sex, she's anyone's slut! OK we all want a slut but it's nice if she is just MY slut and that involves work, which maybe manipulation and cunning or other deviousness or just pure charm.Originally Posted by Kelli