Quote Originally Posted by slavelucy
...it's just a different kind of love...
slavelucy's words made me think of this book

William Brame, Gloria Brame, Jon Jacobs: Different Loving. A Complete Exploration of the World of Sexual Dominance and Submission.

It portrays various people who practise various BDSM activities and fetishes 'as they see themselves: loving and compassionate individuals'. Perhaps it would be an interesting read for you & Slave Violet.

Best wishes