Pole Dildos

[Hellbent]

OK. I think the way to go is to use a large washer that you slide the flared end of the dildo through. Now you need a second washer attached to the pole. Then the two washers can be clamped together somehow. I can't figure out an easy way to attach the second washer to the pole, other than having it welded to a shaft that would then be inserted in the pole.

[Sean Malone]

I have looked at a number of mounting post concepts, which I have used in my bdsm fiction writing.

On the safety issue, there can be a serious risk of rupture and impalement, if the basic concepts are not properly understood, or incompetently applied.

Firstly, it is essential to have some kind of flange or crossbar through the pole to make sure that the dildo part cannot penetrate any further than is safe. The flange or crossbar must be very securely fixed so it cannot slip. Something like a bicycle saddle could be used. Securing the hands behind the back is sufficient to ensure that the woman cannot climb off.

Secondly, the length that is inserted must not exert too much pressure on the vagina or the cervix. The pressure is inversely proportional to the cross sectional area of the shaft. The thinner the shaft, the greater the pressure so conversely, a thicker shaft is safer.

Thirdly, a good way to ensure that there is no risk of harm due to excessive penetration is to secure the woman in an upright spreadeagled position, her arms holding her up so she can't sink down too far. Always remove the post before releasing her arms to make sure she doesn't slip or fall onto it.

Lastly, however it is done, don't ever allow the woman freedom to attempt to climb off unassisted after she is mounted, because if she slips she could be injured. Don't leave her unattended for long periods either.

Once she is spreadeagled, I like the concept of a thick wooden mounting post with a smooth rounded top, spring mounted in a cylindrical sleeve, the spring allowing 6-8 inches of vertical movement. You adjust the post so that with the spring compressed, it presses up into the soft hollow of her vulva. Her task it to resist penetration by clenching her vulva muscles as hard as she can. This is an excellent pelvic floor exercise. With plenty of natural lubrication, encouraged by the partner's teasing fingers, this can become a difficult challenge. A few strokes with a cane or other suitable punishment implement will almost certainly cause her to clench and relax for a moment and before she can stop it she is well and truly mounted. After that there is plenty of scope for play, and lots of lovely orgasms.

One of the variations I looked at was varying the roundness of the tip, making the cross section more elliptical to increase the difficulty, or more spherical to make it easier. Using wood all the way up means that you can use a larger diameter, if she can take it. 1.5" to 2" is probably ideal. I can send people a spreadsheet that shows the calculations for the tip profiles. Contact jolan2 at yahoo.com for the spreadsheet.

There are several mechanical alternatives to a spring mounted shaft, using pulleys and weights or even hydraulic pressure. The important thing is not to use something too forceful like a geared motor. There needs to be a certain elasticity, rather than rigidity in the way the pressure feels.

Vaginal mounting opens up other possibilities for bdsm play including the insertion of suppositories, enemas and even anal sex while she is mounted, not that I would encourage any of the above!

[Ruby]

Sean, Wow! Looks like you've done your research. So have you built / used any of these things? Have pictures? Thought of turning this into a business / web site?

You've brought up some very important things to consider.

Like many of the others, this type of device would be too scary for me. Reminds me of the whole Vlad Dracula thing - not in a good way. The stories that I've read, don't have enough concern for the safety issues. Like putting a lady on one of these things, gagged, then walking away. eek!

[vistana]

Reminds me of the whole Vlad Dracula thing - not in a good way.

Oh dear...I'll never be able to look at Vlad the Impaler the same way again

[Ranai]

The stories that I've read, don't have enough concern for the safety issues. Like putting a lady on one of these things, gagged, then walking away. eek!

Thank you for pointing this out, Ruby. It was one of the things that made me scratch my head when I read that chapter in 'Monica's Place'. An author has the poetic license to let characters do all the unsafe and dangerous stuff they want, but in that particular story they are usually so careful, monitoring everything that is going on in the house on CCTV and so forth... So I was wondering: 'Am I just being paranoid, or is this as risky as it sounds?'

[Hellbent]

I would like to clarify something, at least in regard to my original request. I had in mind strictly a non mounted pole dildo. I feel the pole provides a completley different aspect of manuverability. The dildo can be twirled easier, etc. Just wanted to make that clear.

[Sean Malone]

I would like to clarify something, at least in regard to my original request. I had in mind strictly a non mounted pole dildo. I feel the pole provides a completley different aspect of manuverability. The dildo can be twirled easier, etc. Just wanted to make that clear.

A non mounted pole dildo is surely a dildo without the pole!

[Mobius]

A non mounted pole dildo is surely a dildo without the pole!

Sorry Sean but you are a victom of thread drift.

[slavelucy]

A non mounted pole dildo is surely a dildo without the pole!

*grins* i think Hellbent meant a dildo on a pole, but not mounted in a static position....if that makes sense.

i don't think you're the victim of thread drift either, i think the thread opened up quite nicely and the stuff you said was interesting.

sl