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The hardest part about dealing with subspace online is recognizing it. Watch for different patterns in responses, and keep talking. Communication is the only real tool avaialble in cyber, so use it. Make her responde to you and go slow. Ask how she is doing often. I know this can sometimes break the flow of play, but that is better than the other potential consequences. There are a few threads a bout aftercare, and that applies online. Try to always do this. I realize it ios sometim,es impossible, but when you are going to play, carve out extra time for tha aftercare. This can take as long as the play, sometimes longer. Above all, communicate.