This thread reminds me of something I've wondered about, and that's how you reconcile your desire to have her as your lover and companion with your desire to have her as your slave.

Most of my BDSM activity is confied to the bedroom, or at least done in privacy. Other times I want her to be my equal. I want someone I can talk to and share things with. How do you do this in the context of a 24/7 relationship?

---dr.M.