Quote Originally Posted by dr_mabeuse
If it's something entirely new, there's often a considerable amount of fumbling around and false starts - even laughter
I so agree dr_mabeuse, and this can happen online as well as in real life.

Lucy and I spent one entire evening online in giggles as we totally failed to put a rope successfully round her waist and through her pussy lips. This involved demonstrations over the cam of the length of rope needed, knot tying, placement of the rope, etc, etc. The whole episode closely resembled a parent's first attempts at putting a nappy (diaper) on a baby. At one stage it seemed we had succeeded until she stood up and looked wonderful (of course) but the rope was in a small pile round her ankles.

The evening was far better because of our useless attemps to resolve the problems, interspersed with long periods of laughter and writing in brackets (see above), than it would have been if we had managed to get the rope tying right the first time.

Laughter can be better than anything .. even BDSM.