Quote Originally Posted by learningtopleez
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Dump him! I'm speaking as someone who was shit on from a very great height but I was too blind and too enthralled to see it coming. His demands on you are too excessive and he sounds like he is giving up nothing for your relationship.

This is all a little complex to go into here but I had a four year relationship with someone who attached what I thought were excessive conditions and I told her why I thought they were excessive right from the beginning. I was straight as a die with her but looking back I guess she was a suspicious and a cynical person. However she wouldn't bend and in the end I gave into her conditions which involved leaving my wife because I was crazy about her. Once I had fulfilled her conditions she then turned round and said she owed me nothing and that she didn't want my wife's cast off. Giving into her conditions cost me my relationship with my daughter, I had a breakdown, it cost me at least $200,000 and probably more, I daren't count, certainly it has put my retirement back several years. She however, was putting nothing on the line. I never even got an apology from her. She rationalizes away what she did to me, saying she had flawed ethics. Well No! Her ethics might have been flawed to have anything to do with me but to tell me to basically 'Fuck off!' when I had met her conditions was just her being an EVIL BITCH! She also said she had changed her mind about me some six months earlier doh! Why didn't she tell me that six months earlier? Why didn't she tell me when I told her I was going to fulfill her conditions? Probably because my latest estimate of her being an EVIL BITCH is about right.

So I would say DUMP HIM before he shits on you anymore. He has given you enough reasons to walk away. Don't be a stupid naive fool like me. The irony was when I had my breakdown, my wife was the first person to come to my aid. Sometimes you just don't know what you've got. Love, infatuation, call it what you will, makes one blind. Get rid of him. There are plenty more blokes out there.

Before I met this woman, I hated no one. Now I find part of me is an angry bitter person and I hate having those emotions, it ruins ones enjoyment of the world. So I say it again. Get rid of him, go through the hurt but in the future you will probably look back and think it was a wise move to walk away.