A dom(me) should encourage you to ask questions and find answers. I encourage my subs to look around (and always suggest this forum since i thinkthis is BY FAR the most accurate) and ask here or me (or both) if they have questions.

Get out. yes, it hurts emotionally. But dont let him pull any of the emotional bs (you need me/i need you, etc)- as others have already mentioned you can't let yourself be abused or pushed around by him! It's just not worth the risks.