Quote Originally Posted by Master Jack's pet
i cannot ever see myself "changing roles" with my Sir for an hour, never mind a day. this smacks of role-playing to me. being a submissive is not a role for me; it is who and what i am. and the truth is i have no desire to "try out" anything else.

It's funny... I read through this thread again and I was thinking about something. Abitbent said in another post somewhere, something about how people are either "hardwired" or they're not. I'm starting to think once again that BDSM has parallels in sexual orientation. There are people both male and female who can 'try' out a gay/lesbian physical experience--just as an adventure. There are just as many people, likely even more, who couldn't do it.

We tried and it was an absolute 'no way josé never again' for us both. You're more likely to see Mobius in bed with a guy than me whipping a woman, no matter how much she wanted it.

Just looking at the variety of answers in this thread you can see how people are either able or unable to switch. It seems for some things we don't really have a choice.

Once again... interesting thread Nibbles!