" I don't know if the rose smells quite as good as in one's imagination. "

Buy i hope this is not true! While i agree 19 is a little young, i was 23 when i met my Master, who was 46. That was five years, a collaring, 2,000 mile move and a wedding later! i can honestly tell you that He thinks i am His fantasy. The main trouble we had was people not taking us seriously-- i was viewed as a gold digger/trophy wife. After five years we have proved that we will last.

i will say that at 23 i was fairly mature-- i had been married once before and had two children. i doubt very much if i could say the same about myself at 19. One key thing that i think needs to happen in relationships where one partner is significantly younger than the other is to allow that person to grow and become *who* they are. Master enjoyed watching me be 23, 24 ,25...(i will be 29 on Sun!) He had fun watching me grow as a submissive and a woman. There were difficult times--when things i just *didn't* know got in the way-- like how to throw a dinner party...lol...but we got through them.

i say give it a shot. The fantasy can be a lot of fun! It will take patience on your part--but at least from our perspective, it has been a labor of love.

*~magic~*