Quote Originally Posted by csr

It's funny... I read through this thread again and I was thinking about something. Abitbent said in another post somewhere, something about how people are either "hardwired" or they're not.....Just looking at the variety of answers in this thread you can see how people are either able or unable to switch. It seems for some things we don't really have a choice.

Once again... interesting thread Nibbles!
Thank you, csr....that is exactly why I put this thread up (along with the other one like it).....I'm very interested in how some people seem to be able to get into variety and yet even in BDSM (a virtual smorgasbord of sexual variety.....physically and mentally) there are those that say...this is it for me absolutely

I don't mind how others view and live their own lives....I don't want to tell anyone they have to be this way or that....I'm just interested in the thought processes....because in learning what other people see for their lives I'm able to then put it on my life, in a way....see if it "fits" so to speak....and I learn more about who and what I am...and not just sexually

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