Good for you, ltp! Stick to your decision! I could not add a thing to what everyone else has said - but I completely agree that you should make your break. This man shows no concern for you at all, and the longer you stay attached, the harder it will be to leave. I'm so glad you did not meet him - you go girl!!! :congrat:
You deserve a Dom who is considerate of your needs, and does not ridicule your fantasies. There is one out there for you!
I wish you luck.
G