Quote Originally Posted by Dngnkeeper
I would love to hear your thoughts and questions.
I am genuinely fascinated in all of it but I am definitely not into pain, especially in that area but I am interested in trying some of the sensitizing and stimulation techniques. Well it's not just me that's interested, I have a friend who insists she's a sub but she seems a little rebelious to me at times.

What would you recommend for someone just starting to explore the area of cbt for arousal/stimulation and sensitizing. Bear in mind I am defintely dominant inclined and I don't think subbing or being a bottom would be a turn on for me at all. So I guess I'm asking is cbt purely a submissive thing? I can't imagine there is nothing in cbt that wouldn't be a turn on for a dominant inclined person.