Hello my name is Jadetiger. I signed up a couple of days ago and have been viewing several of the topics. My sexual fantasies tend to involve being dominated or dominating someone else. I have never acted out any of the fantasies in real life but I am extremely curious about BDSM. My curiosity was peaked recently when in another forum we played truth or dare. Of course I picked dare and ended up in a torture chamber. The man who challenged me to truth or dare turned out to have a flair for S&M. He PM'ed later to apologizes in case he had offended me by what he did to me but in truth I found the experience very arousing. He gave me a link to one of the stories on this site and although the stories contact was a little to extreme for my first taste of submission I am still curious to explore S&M more. So I joined this forum to explore my fantasies further. I live in USA, Virginia. My interests are Japanese anime, hentia and magna. I read a lot of sleazy vampire hump novels and my tasted in TV is normally SCI FI. I also work in IT so I spend a lot of time on the computer.
Because of my ignorance, I'm not sure if I'm a Dom or Sub type. I think I lean more to domination because I have a strong personality and don’t really like being controlled. But I also feel to be a good Mistress I should first learn how to be a good slave.
I was thinking of joining the ‘Welcome to the new Lord Mobius's Dungeon’ but there may be someplace else I should start. I'd appreciate all the help I can get.
Jade