Brand *spanking* new member here, hi all! (delight in horrible puns, scusi)

Am relatively new to most things... And here to seek advice and entertainment! Have been glancing through the site and me likey.

Now a question, don't know if I should be posting here or elsewhere... (do tell me the house rules!)
Currently in a relationship where we're just starting to explore some D/s stuff. I've been into basic sm (ooh happy stinging canes and crops!), but not that good at domination and things.

Frankly, I need ideas! Submission comes easily for me, but dominating my gf - as titillating as the prospect is - leaves me perplexed. Might any of you charming people deign to educate a fey switch in the art of light-to-medium domination? Should I be joining a course right here?