Lol - Natalie: it was a reference to something Tom said that offended me ... but I'm over it now.
Is there a gap? I've never been aware of it. OK - there are differences - but they aren't communication gaps. But we all agree, for example, that we'd rather be Scots than any other nationality. And we can do this without a thought as to what the truth is about its status in the United Kingdom or in the world. We are certain in our knowledge that Scotland is the best country in the world, just as Americans know that the USA is, and as (most?) Swedes know that Sweden is. And we know we cannot defend ourselves against pure logic, but we don't care.
Agreed: no argument. But if they can't use patriotism as a vehicle for expressing their beliefs, they will find something else, sadly.
You've done a grand job, as far as I can see. Your problem was you were debating with someone who couldn't keep up (me). I do understand that a nation is an artificial entity, just like a corporation is. It makes no more difference to belong to any one nation than it does to work for any corporation*. Nevertheless, I am proud to have worked for the companies that have employed me. And, without being fanatical about it, I am proud of being a Scot. I'm proud of my English side, too, even if only to a lesser extent.
Maybe this thread is concluded, but if it isn't, then use short words, simple ideas and type slowly!
TYWD
* If you ignore the fact that nations have different living standards and corporations offer different career paths.