Quote Originally Posted by Ruby
And if not have subbed, then at least tried out some of the things themselves so they know what we are going through.

Garnet, what a great confession! How would he react if you said, "Gee, no. we won't be doing any more of that until you let me do it to you?"

The expression on his face might be worth the "punishment" you receive later. LOL
LMAO, Ruby. Just imagining that with my own dom is good for a laugh...followed by a bit of a shudder. I don't think I could even say that to him with a straight face. And even if I wanted to and could, I have a suspicion that he'd make quite sure I lived to regret taking my smart-assed comments to that level.

And to answer nibbles' original question, I wouldn't know what to do with myself as a domme. It would be completely role play, whereas I consider being a sub part of who I am as an individual.

csr makes an excellent point as well...D/s/or switch is a lot like straight/gay/or bi...I think we all fall somewhere on a continuum for both, as opposed to it being black or white. I'd say I'm on the straight side of bi- as I prefer men but enjoy women as well...so more towards the middle of the spectrum on that one. For the dom/sub continuum though, I'd be way, way out on the subbie side...lol. I'd expect that good switches come from somewhere closer to the middle ground there.

Interesting threads, nibs!

eb