Quote Originally Posted by Darkgirl
Would you believe that I never heard of BDSM till about three weeks ago when it popped up on TV.
Yes I would believe that. While I had heard the term BDSM many times it was only coming to this site that helped me to find out what I was and to be happy with how I am. I am sure you will do the same.

One word of advice though - dont rush it. Just take it as it comes and try to understand what your real feelings are. At first, the heady mix of realisation and freedom can be so intoxicating that you may find you are acting like a kid in a sweet shop. Although THAT can be fun too, it is usually better to take the scenic route and enjoy the journey rather than madly rushing along the motorway. Lets face it, now you have realised what/who you are, you can enjoy it for the rest of your life.