Hi Darkgirl,

Welcome to the forums, and, in fact, an extra special welcome from me to you as i'm also from Manchester.

i'd pretty much second what everyone else has said, try to relax and enjoy learning about yourself..anything that doesn't feel right to do or even think about, then don't, anything you wanna ask, then ask.

As for where to go round here...for the time being you could have a look through these forums and the library, just feel stuff out a bit.

We're all very friendly here, Babysub is right, no one will bite unless you ask them to.

sl