I will also add My welcome and greetings to you. My words of advice to you are thus: take your time, explore every aspect, and don't let yourself be pigeon-holed into being a "this" or a "that". Part of the joy and the novelty of what you have discovered in yourself is the ability to open yourself fully to the sensual experiences that may push the limits of your imagination. I would stress to you that if you take the things you learn here on your journey into real life, that you find someone that you trust implicitly to accompany you on your travels into the unknown.
I have lived inside the BDSM lifestyle for over 20 years and for the most part would not change any step of My travels. The experiences prepared Me for the fork in the road that brought Me rane, the one that completes Me. After knowing each other online for a year and a half We finally met in person and I realize this is what I was meant for. (if you are interested, here is the URL with My blog and pictures A Happy Place )
If offer you My ear when you need it, and also that of rane, as when I met him he was also in the same position you are now. You need but ask.
Kali
(as much owned as Owner of rane)