I have been curious about about submission for a while. I found your site and started reading the stories. I joined the forum not too long ago. I am learning more about BDSM. My husband likes being dominate. We bought a house in the country last year about the same time as the last child at home moved out into his own apartment. Wow it was like being newly weds all over again, even though this is the second marriage for each of us. We live far enough out that I don't worry about anyone seeing us naked, the house is designed for minimal coverings on the windows. We do have fun switching from vanilla and then back. I am getting a better picture of what is normal for one couple is not enough for another couple, in other words there are no set rules for each couple. Thank you for helping me to learn and enjoy more about BDSM.