Quote Originally Posted by BDSM_Tourguide
most would experience great deals of agony, and not in a good way


Um..i DO experience agony, believe me, just not injury, or certainly not any of a disturbing or serious nature.

i believe that the use of lube is largely a psychological necessity, the human body is up to a fair amount of rough and tumble. Admittedly i am more used (as opposed to 'more used', you clever fox, you) to anal play than some people, but i have never used lube, including the first time i ever had anal sex.

Quote Originally Posted by BDSM_Tourguide
The anus doesn't get wet like the vagina,.
You may have inadvertently made a good point there. Now i think about it, i'm usually so turned on from WW's ministrations (evil and tender in turn) that my own lube seems to get everywhere! Between my cheeks (*blush*), down my thighs, on the bed....p'raps nature's giving me a helping hand.

Either way, i'm happy to be the exception that proves the rule, it's a role i'm kinda used to anyway.

sl