i have a new name..

[tessa]

Hey tess,

That sounds pretty bad on me taken out of context. I know that wasn't your intent... but... people reading just that will think me crude or coarse.

Someone asks about a kink topic, I don't just say go for it. I point out the pitfalls. Too much or too strong, and you can hurt yourself...

YIKES!!!!!!!!!!! You said it correctly! Any negative was NOT my intent!! Oh, I feel just awful! My deepest, most sincere apologies, Oz.

The only thing I meant by what I said was that you always have something very unique, creative and thought-provoking to say. That's all I meant. Again, I am quite sorry that it was taken in any other way.

tessa

ps. I have edited my previous post. Apologies again.