Quote Originally Posted by bug
a Friend of mine and i were discussing this forum discussion yesterday and W/we have come with the solution that most BDSM interests stem from abuse and i would like to encourage those W/whom have not suffered abuse of this kind that W/we have spoke of these last few days, to come forward and explain why T/they have fantasies about this. *smiles*

then maybe W/we can notice what W/we don't notice *winks*

thankies A/all this have given me more enlightenment to my own individual understandings and workings *nodnod*
I think that is a great idea bug!! If we can begin to notice what we don't notice then perhaps we can begin to notice what is shaping our thoughts and deeds!

I guess life is a continuous learning process after all!

~ltp~