Quote Originally Posted by briansmine View Post
As crazy as this sounds, does anyone get tired of being worshipped once in a while? That even though the sub is basically begging to kiss your feet and crawl through whatever tasks you give them, you'd really just rather go to bed?


I really don't mean any disrespect, but this so made me laugh. First, to be serious I don't worship anyone other than my God. Secondly, I have never once begged to kiss his feet or crawl anywhere. He has nasty toes and I have bad knees.

I think communication is the key and having a good understanding of the type of people you each are. My Sir can be really intense at times. Something about dominants that do that. Anyway, I have learned, and I do mean this little subbie had to learn, that it isn't always about me. Sometimes he is just in a lousy mood, tired, or busy and he needs me to not pester him or pout.

That goes both ways by the way. Sometimes I can get a bit crazy with stress, business, and that time of the month. He has learned not to take it personal and give me some space or that back rub I sometimes so badly need.

Talk to each other and be understanding and realistic.